About Issues and Essays.

[dagronrat]

Okay to be honest I didn't use a swear as mild as that when this happened to me today.

I've come to realise that I have issues with Essays... and these issues need addressing.

For the little story, today I was due to hand in a resit for an essay I had "botched" (only missed a pass by half a point though!) and ended up not having anything -at all- to hand in, despite reading up on junk I could use for it and trying to organise/kick myself into doing it.

This has happened before. And I am NOT happy about it.

I went to see the CCS* tutor about this this afternoon. She said it wasn't the end of the world, that many people had this same problem and I had another 2 chances to fix this/resit. As much as this is annoying, it is kind of reassuring to be told that, contrary to how it feels, one is not alone in being challenged by such a simple task. That said, it shouldn't be the problem it has been for me. I am a hard worker admittedly mostly when I am in class, and I am interested in the topic of the essay. I like to read and write. I just happen to be, apparently, unreliable when it comes to something I don't feel like doing.

I block at doing the essay for stupid reasons too.
Such as getting mad over the format restrictions (vancouver referencing style is scary), not being sure what exactly is expected, being intimidated by the amount of citations that seem expected, not wanting to take time out of my evenings/studio work to do the research and so on. And of course, the biggest and stupidest reason of them all? I'd rather be doing something else. I'll procrastinate to the extent where I'll go and convince myself that in reading a book I am preparing for the essay, when I haven't even reread the brief or looked at my passed errors.
... Hell I even forgot when exactly the paper was due -back-. (Admittedly though, I'd been looking for that letter saying when for over a week. It was under my nose the whole time I was shuffling stuff on my desk. I just happened to have been convinced I was looking for a brown envelope and not a white one. D:)

This sort of thing has happened to me as far back as Secondary School, where I could not bring myself to get passed page 2 of H. G. Wells's Invisible Man it was so soporific. Teacher was kind enough not to give me detention when I explained this to her as I give in my blank test sheet, but I still got a 0/20.
It has also happened in High-school, where I handed a blank sheet for our first Maths' Coursework, after fretting -all night- over it.
And, as in the post linked above, it happened to me in first year at uni. Oh I handed in something then. But it was merely a bunch of scribbles in the research notebook and a half hearted essay. (The research notebook aspect of it was what really traumatized me then.)

I have however managed to do other Maths coursework and essays after, sometimes with a friend or family member peering over my shoulder to make sure I do the sums and don't flee, sometimes without.

If I -can- do without supervision, -why- do I still block? Why did I block on this first term essay retrieval when just 2 weeks ago I managed to do the second term essay that I consider to be an okay job?

I need to reflect on this, and find a solution so it doesn't happen again.
I do not want to be unreliable like this in future.

*CCS: Contextual & Critical Studies. Think of it as a mix of Art History, Philosophy, and the study of contemporary art practices.

Note: Self-ranting post, avoid if you'd rather do so.

Comments

[yokotsuno.livejournal.com]

Poor Dag. Hug you.
Say CCS? Card Captor Sakura? Lol. Just kidding.
Well, I'm not better, procrastination is my friend.

[dagronrat.livejournal.com]

Oh I wish it was all about Card Captor Sakura. That would give me an excuse to reread the series. X3

"I'm no better" not "not". ^^;;;

*hugs back*

[yokotsuno.livejournal.com]

Okay. ^^

[fs-playground.livejournal.com]

*laughs at the comic strip...

Uh, it's a form of procrastinating, I think. I don't get my assignments done. And it took me a lot of time to realized that I needed to do those assignments if I want to get my degree. Many people have that problem when they feel too much pressure. I don't think that it's the case with us, because both of us can write a lot when we need to. I think we don't like being told to do things. It's like having a leader-syndrome and be unable to follow orders. I have that problem all the time. It can be really painful because you don't get anything important done on time.

The only way to get over it is to work like a maniac when you need to do the work, meaning that you have to prevent yourself from procrastinating at all cost. And if that doesn't help, then the opposite helps: Force yourself to procrastinate for at least one semester and don't get ANYTHING done (not even when you feel like doing it). Afterwards it gets a lot easier to do the things you need to do. I tried it out and it seems to work. (I've finally collected all the papers for my mid-studies exam and manage to write my essays again.)

Good luck. :)

[dagronrat.livejournal.com]

Doing nothing for a month seems a bit... severe. *I get all annoyed at myself merely missing school for a day half the time. D: Though I do do it when I feel there is a need.*

I think we don't like being told to do things.
I think you have a very good point there. My sister emphatically agrees on this point.

I think I'll try the manic approach, thanks. I'm too much of a wuss for the other one. XD;;

God luck with your own essays! *huggles*

[fs-playground.livejournal.com]

XD The other approach is a good solution if the first one doesn't work. I didn't mean one month, I meant one semester. Forcing oneself not to do anything for university can become hard after a while. Believe me, you will write your essays afterwards. :P

But I hope you won't need to try the radical solution. XD

*huggles

[bf-nightingale.livejournal.com]

Oh great, I'm not the only one who pushs important paperwork from her as far as she can until the dead lines.^^;
I'm sorry, I'm afraid I can't give you any good advice, since I will redo these last two semesters because I haven't been able to find the right method to force myself to work properly, fast and in time. *sigh* Perhaps the donkey-and-carrot method will work for you though? Sometimes I give myself a reward I'm really looking forward to as soon as I finished important and annoying stuff, even if it didn't properly work with me this year...>__>

[dagronrat.livejournal.com]

Alas I doubt rewards other than having people encouraging me and supervising? XD;; work that well with me since I tend to go "so what?" and shrug if something doesn't go my way. XD;;

Awh well. If I find the secret I'll be sure to share. *Huggles*
Good luck. It must be a pain to have to redo two semesters. D: